I figured I would be
writing about this topic sooner or later and with all the uproar over
Chick-Fil-A in the recent days now seems to be the time to do it. Now the
purpose of this blog was to highlight parts of the Bushido code
and how I might apply it to my own personal life to make myself a better
person. So you might be wondering what the chicken peddler and the
homosexual life style have anything to do with me and this blog. To
explain this I need to dive some years into the past.
There is no real easy
way to say this nor do I have any desire (or right) to sugar coat it, but as a
younger man I hated homosexuality, more so I hated the homosexual. Why
you ask? Well most likely an error in my own thinking on the idea of what
is good and evil which was fueled by this Bible verse:
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 - "Do you not know that
the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the
sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual
offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor
swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God."
At the time this seemed
pretty cut and dry to me. If you're gay well then have a good time in
hell. Really that line of thought is to my everlasting shame and more
than likely may have coast me some friendships. Still life is full
of surprises and we are given chances to grow and learn and I feel
that as I grew older and learned more about critical thinking and became
interested in forging my owns ideas and beliefs I did gradually become a better
person. I realized that rudeness and impolite behavior only
demonstrated my own insecurities and weakness. Still the matter of
homosexuality was something I struggled with for many years. I had
become friends with some homosexuals, I learned that some people I knew for
many years were in fact homosexuals, and they were all excellent people of good
character and I just could not just simply accept that fire was all that was
awaiting these people.
So what conclusion did I
arrive at?
Simply this. Jesus
said to love our neighbor as yourself. I want to be treated with dignity
and respect. I want to treat myself with dignity and respect. I
will extend that to all who cross my path. I have no reason to be rude or
disrespectful. More so I have no right to be hateful. Hate is
a poison the will slowly choke the life out of us all if we allow it
a place within ourselves. Furthermore I've come to believe that the door
to heaven is open to all who believe in Jesus Christ.
So the common theme here
is one of
RESPECT |
Now more than ever I think we need to seek to understand each other. Even if we do not agree, we can at least agree to disagree and give each other the measure of respect we all deserve. |
"Come
now, let us reason together," Says the Lord. - Isaiah 1:18.
Brandt